Smoking fetish?? Its a dirty filthy habit i know but ever since pre-teens i have always been turned by women smoking. I know i'm not alone in this fetish but what i don't know is, are there any women out there who have this fetish? I adore women smoking during sex, but i usually dont last very long when they do.Only sensible answers please XXX |
| As a girl that smokes I think thats fantastic....... are you single?? |
Smoking fetish???? My boyfriend of 2 years has a wired fetish...He wants me to smoke during sex and have me make it come out of my nose and its really not always sex it kinda all the time and i just want to smoke how i want but i also want him to be happy but i dont know what to do or say to him with out fliping out...I also want to know if anyone else has this fetish and is it normal? |
| I don't think it is a weird fetish, but you should tell him if you are uncomfortable with any part. If you don't like nose exhales, tell him that you will only do that when you feel like it. He should understand that a relationship is a give and take, and you should share your fantasy/fetish with him. *Note: Everybody has a fetish or fantasy of some sort, but are too timid to express it to their partners* The smoking fetish is a rather new type of fetish, but there are a lot of guys out there with this fetish, including yours truly. I personally don't like nose exhales, but to each their own. Ask him to realy share everything he would like from you regarding this, and then share yours. Good luck! |
How can I make smoking sexy for my boyfriend with a smoking fetish? My boyfriend of two years is fine that I smoke. I don't smoke around him much and he never gives me a hard time about it. Recently he has been viewing a lot of smoking fetish stuff online. And now he is asking me to smoke for him in my lingerie.
Do you have any ideas how I can make smoking look sexy? |
Check out some smoking-fetish websites who focus on making smoking fetish videos and try to learn techniques from the info and pictures(since videos cost)
examples of such websites:
Smokingsweeties.com
Smoking-models.com
Focus on inhaling deeply and letting out a slow exhale, maybe a nostril exhale if that's what he likes.
Also, feel confident and like you are in control, nothing can go wrong.
Good Luck! |
How can I prevent my smoking fetish from becoming necessary for arousal? I hate smoking and, sadly I have this fetish, I don't know what i would do if it became necessary for arousal.
Please help! |
| Just avoid it at all costs.... and try thinking of something else that has the same effect.... |
How can i get rid of the smoking fetish? I'm avery anti smoking guy. I don't smoke and never will. I Hate cigarettes and their smell. I don't even like to be anywhere near smokers. I think smoking laws should be tightened further.
But i like seeing lovely ladies smoke in pictures and movies. I find they look really sexy. How can i rid myself of this fetish> |
That's really interesting because any extreme resistance to a personal issue or indulgence very often manifests itself into a sexual fetish. For example, most "submissive" partners in the S&M community are Type-A personalities that work hard all day and exercise their need to give up control through their S&M fetish. This also explains how SO many extremist anti-gay activists have been eventually caught engaging in homosexual activities themselves (although I wouldn't call homosexuality a "fetish").
If your hatred for smoking is a reason for your fetish, you may not even be conscious of it. I would try hating cigarettes less. Don't try smoking or anything, that's not a good idea. But find positive things that you like about cigarettes outside of sexual attraction, and maybe the fetish will fade.
If it's only images that are turning you on, try being more conscious of the reality of the situation behind the camera. She's stinky, she's being watched by 5 ugly fat dudes holding scripts, and she's uncomfortable as hell.
If none of that works, just enjoy it! I really don't see the harm. |
How can i get rid of a smoking fetish? I have a smoking fetish that has ruined relationships i have had with girls. I am not able to get aroused unless i see a girl smoking, how i can get rid of this, is it possible to get rid of this fetish? |
| "Psychologists and medical practitioners regard fetishism as normal variations of human sexuality".... |
Is it abnormal for a women to have a smoking fetish? I find smoking extremely sexy and am turned on by men who smoke. I smoke myself and get great pleasure from it. I've heard of men with this fetish but never women. |
| Years ago, smoking was considered stylish and sophisticated, now it's considered as naughty. Smoking is still considered a turn-on by woman just as woman are attracted to bad boys. |
How does one with a smoking fetish quit smoking? I have a smoking fetish. I know that it's bad for me but that's a big part of the hold that it has over me. I also enjoy watching women smoke. How can I quit under these circumstances? |
Be aware of ...
No one can quit if not convinced to do so (fetish or not).
There's no best way to quit.
Everyone is different in the way they stop smoking.
What worked for someone might not work for you.
I suggest reading stopsmoking.eu.pn/
The site has a poor design but its contents is very reach. |
How does somebody develop a smoking fetish? I Love it and dont know why.
my girlfriend seems to think its great though,she smokes very often and knows it turns me on very much without any effort.lol.
any idea how someone develops such a fetish? |
| I think it's like a cognitive thing. For example, if you see an intelligent, good looking female, with a good personality, that surprisingly smokes, it becomes rare and kinky. |
Smoking Fetish? Way to appear to smoke with out actually smoking? my signifigant other has a smoking fetish. I wanted to suprise him wih some of those E-ciggarets. Is that a good alternitave? I've never smoked before and don't want to start. would that work or can someone give me another alternitve? |
Yes, but make sure you get the cartridges with NO NICOTINE. Nicotine is unbelievably addictive, but I'm sure you already knew that.
Anyway, E-cigarettes have been designed to feel and even look like smoking a cigarette.
You can get cartridges in a variety of flavors from tobacco and menthol to cherry, coffee, or vanilla
You can even do smoke tricks with them. Here is a video link if you're interested.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=alZvatrby4c&feature=related
Well you're significant other is a lucky man. Have fun! |