My girlfriend is in stomach pain due to anal sex? ok my girlfriend and i tried anal sex she is a virgin in the vaginal region but we wanted to do anal she is complaining of stomach pain and i did not ejaculate into her anal region i pulled out i am wondering why her stomach hurts its been 4 days she said she thinks shes pregnant but i know shes not |
Anal entry is reall painful. And if yours is big...than it is surely hurting her. She must have controlled her muscles too much. I had experience this before.
But it will be ok if you do it often. Tell her to relax and you relex also by bushing it slow ya...enjoy its fun... |
24 yrs old,what are these severe anal pains? I should've gotten a rape kit done as soon as I was raped last year. Otherwise,I think I'd have a bit of peace by knowing why this sharp like severe pain is still constantly bothering me after every bowel movement,every single day I walk, when I sit it stings with bulging vessels beating inside. I've been going to the hospital back & forth still 1 year later. 1 doc prescribed me a creme for external use only.she said I'll be fine. I used it & nothing improved. 2nd doc examined me too. Same result. Nothing. Tests were clear. 3rd doc,assumed it was Hemmorroids. I took Preperation H for a while because that seemed to kinda comfort me at the time. It was on & off. It was times I stopped using it because I couldn't take the pain anymore. I didn't no what it was so when I had no other meds,I used preperation H cremes,suppositories,wipes,stool softners..it has been a year & 2 mths since I was raped. I still feel the pain when he held me down on the ground in my upper left leg,its like a muscle or a lil vein that keeps hurting. I don't know what that is. But I decided to visit my primary doc this year instead of going to the hospital,he examined me like all the rest & found deep lines in my anal:( he prescribed me meds as well,like the others,it soothes the pain but it gets worse again. It keeps coming back & I'm getting scared. I'm 24,young & I can't dance or join the army or do any sports like I intended to do anymore. It hurts sooo bad,I crench my teeth when I walk. I cry over this pain. Family & friends witness this. Its embarrassing. I look & feel handicap now when I go through that. Its my fault...I was raped:( I should've never trusted him or been out there. I am a virgin but not a ANAL virgin anymore. He tore that up. After those prescriptions didn't work,I went to back to him & he told me "This may be something chronic.But You're so young...I don't know what this is or what its really caused from". He referred me to a specialist. Last week,my results came back normal. I still have severe pains. I can't dance now or do what I won't. What is this? I'm confused. It hurts so damn much:( never had this pain EVER. (Till last year). I don't won't to give up. I just won't to find a diagnoses.any advice would be nice. Sorry so long but this is important to me. |
You maybe having psychosomatic pains.... physical pains with psychological origins. See a psychiatrist. He/she might be able to help you work through your pain.
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Edit: I never said that the pain isn't real or that it's in your head. I said your pain is real but has a psychological origin and it will torment you and all the medicine and examinations and procedures in the world are not going to fix it unless and until you deal with the underlying emotional issues first, then the physical issues. This does NOT mean that you're imagining the pain, it means that your pain needs more attention that just medication to subside. You need to fortify your treatments with therapy to work toward full recovery. |
Pain after Anal Sex? Just had a quick question
My girlfriend and I tried anal sex the other night. She had previously used an anal plug before so she wasn't a complete virgin back there.
Anyways, during penetration she experienced no pain whatsoever, so the sex was enjoyable for both of us, which was a goal accomplished. Afterwards, she said she could tell she had something up there earlier, but it wasn't pain.
20 minutes after, she had a minor pain on her lower right back near here butt. She described it as pulling a muscle but said she doesn't think she did. She's afraid that I went too deep in her. However, she described the pain as completely minor and it didn't really affect her other than she was concerned about it.
I'm just wondering if there's something to be concerned about for her. I didn't even go as far as she did with the anal plug, but you never know. I think she's just working herself up because it was her first time, but it's good to be precautionary!
Thanks for the answers! |
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Why is my vaginal area in pain and i have two like bumps on the two lips towards the anal area its very uncomf I have two bumps toward my anal area. I have had unprotected sex with my husband --we've been married for six months-- maybe four times. Now a couple of days after this I began to feel the difference. And my vagina is leaking like a white/cream liquid. I've been wearing a pad to help it not get on my underclothing; it just comes on the pad a little like a couple of smears.. What could be wrong.. I also have alil bump by my lip, but i have haad a bumpb like this in the past, but not the vaginal bump.. Oh I was a virgin before 6months ago as well so keep that in mind. |
This is not something you can really have a good and helpful adivice on the net. You, honestly, need to see a specialist as soon as possible, before it could develope into something bad.
Please do not ignore this advice.
All the best!/ |
How does one have deep gay anal sex if they can only take about 5 inches before extreme pain.? Im a gay bottom (and a virgin) and the idea of getting anal turns me on so much. I have experimented before wiht different makeshift toys and the feel of being penetrated isnt bad anymore. And I can get use to the width of an object just fine at my entry way. But my problem is depth. I recently got another makeshift toy (thats a good 10 inches) but is incredibly thin (just an inch in width, not circumference) hoping i could gradually see how deep I could receive. It seems after 5 inches I have horrible pain and it feels like i am coming up to an unpassable wall (like an organic intestinal wall no feces). I have tried twisting the toy and pushing it in at all sorts of various angles and nothing. Just extreme horrible pain and the fear I am going to to hurt myself tot the degree of winding up in the ER. Im not actually trying to take a 10 inch toy but my BF's penis is around 6.5-7.5 inches and I am trying to prepare myself for him when it does come time to lose my virginity. DOes anyone have tips to increase the depth of what I can take without injuring myself. Also is this not a wall but a curve i just have to ease my way into and get used too? If so how shoudl i do that without rupturing something (ITS SO PAINFUL) and what angle do I take I tried matching a diagram I saw and that didnt work. Im thinking about just giving up on anal all together or finding a BF witha small penis lol. |
| you could tr and get some numbing cream. they do make it for that purpose at the sex shop |
Is she lying when she said she hadn't had anal sex before but when we did it she felt no pain even without lub? she said she was a virgin when we got married but our first night we had anal sex and i did enter smoothly and she enjoyed it without any pain |
| No, she might not have been lying. If you entered smoothly she may just truly have enjoyed it. It's a common misconception with both anal and vaginal intercourse that it has to hurt the first attempt. If you are slow, and she is willing it should not hurt. Most women that insist losing your virginity hurts speak from experience when they were not fully aroused or their partner entered too fast or incorrectly. Sex, first time or not, is not supposed to hurt. |
Help ! What is this lump next to my anal hole ? I have a lump near my anal hole, in between my vaginal and anal hole, but it is close and protruding from the anal hole. Its the size of a dime. I only saw this a couple months ago, but i dont know how long i had it for. Sometimes i get some anal pain when im passing a bowel movement. It is a little red/pinkish in color and it doesnt hurt when i press it. I dont know.... i hope its not anal cancer. I am so scared to go to the doctors again. I had a colonoscopy a month ago, but the specialist never said anything about the lump. I dont know if its something to be concerned about. I am only 21 and a virgin and never had sex before. I am also getting my period twice a month...i dont know if it has to do anything with this. What could this be? Does anyone have this...please let me know. Thanks. |
You have weak muscles and you have a herniation. You need to exercise to get your hromones under control to get your periods to stop.
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First time anal sex, Advice Needed!? Hello,
I have been with my Boyfriend for 5 months now and we have a 100% solid and happy relationship.
We have a great sex life and neither of us have ever failed to reach climax and ***.
Until now my partner has been the Taker in the relationship(If you haven't worked it out we are both guys).
But we have talked about it and we both agree and want it to be a 50/50 thing.
The thing is I have never taken before only given and I really need some advice on what I need to do before/during/after to make it as pleasent as pos.
How do I prepare myself cause my Boyfriend has quite a thick penis especialy the end gland.
I really do want this I'm just a little scared about the pain the first few times and mainly how it's going to go in been a anal virgin and him been quite thick.
Any advice would be great!
Thanks! |
| I'm not going to lie..it will hurt at first. Make sure he wears a condom for 2 reasons 1) safety and disease 2) when he 'goes' eventually it has to come out somewhere, and more then likely it will come dow your leg, and it is kinda gross. use lots and lots of lube. have him use a few fingers then he can enter. you mostly have to relax if you clench up it will hurt more. make sure he knows to stop when you say so! good luck..a few drinks wouldn't hurt beforehand either! |
I am gay and i am afraid to have anal sex, what should i do? Ive done a lot of sexual activities in my day but Ive never had sex yet. Ive convinced myself that i should try it. So i called my boyfriend over. We were in the mood then he put it in me and i freaked out from the pain. I told him that i couldn't do it not yet. Can anyone tell me any advise on what to do. I don't want to be a virgin forever. |
| Not all gay guys are comfortable with anal sex, especially on the receiving end. You can have an enjoyable sexual relationship with just manual and oral sex if you'd like. If you or your boyfriend feel that anal sex is an essential part of the relationship then try anal masturbation for awhile, and slowly loosen up before you try it with him again. And always use lots of lube! It's possible you'll never be comfortable with it though, anal isn't for everyone. If you still aren't comfortable with it, hopefully your boyfriend will understand and you'll be able to come to some sort of compromise. |
16 year old virgin and ......? I have anal pains like inside my butt a lot and sometimes my Lower vagina.is this just a warning that my period is coming up! I've had my period for about
Four years now..I usually didn't have any cramps jut always makes my stomach hurt until I poop..sorry but the last couple of months I've been getting Pains in my vagina inside my butt and top thighs ?! Isn't this normal for period notices ?keep in mind I am virgin |
| I get those pains like a couple times during the first 2 days of my period so i would think its normal, especially since you're a virgin. But you can still speak to your doctor if you're scared. |